I saw a picture that really shows a thousand words from the internet long ago. Now only I have the time to talk about it. Kids (children younger than 18), if you want to read pass this line, please make sure you do your own thinking and not follow blindly. Life is not all about sex or money.

To start off, I believe everybody loves flirting with the opposite sex, I’m even sure some people enjoy flirting with the same sex as well. Have you ever wondered how things might turn out after all the flirting, well maybe you get what you want (assuming that you succeeded), but what is it that you actually want?

Before I write any further, I’d like you all to spend some time to do some little thinking. Think about the moment you flirt, and what is it that is floating in your mind while you’re flirting (or any action that associated with the word flirt) with the opposite sex? Don’t think about what you feel, think about what you want from him/her.

Done thinking ? Now view the picture below.

Haha, how true can this be? I have no idea, but one thing is for sure is that these thoughts definitely flashes pass every single mind of yours (including mine), not once, not twice, but very frequently. Well, unless if you’re Pope Benedict XVI or monk/nun then you wouldn’t bother thinking about these anymore.

I guess these things happen very naturally, that’s why humans have been flirting for ages to attract the opposite sex. But why women doesn’t think about sex while flirting? Do they not crave sex despite all the surveys stating, "women love sex more than men"? Perhaps sex for women depends a lot on feelings, and is very different from the on off switch of a man.

On the other hand, why men doesn’t think about cars, airplanes, wines, presents and etc (from the blinking picture) while flirting? Fairly easy, because we are supposed to provide them. Maybe not many of us could afford an airplane, but we definitely can afford a car and heaps of presents. So affordable materials shouldn’t be a big problem at all for men I guess.

How about fairness? Women want so much from men but men only want a thing from women. The only statement I have for this is, "enough is forever not enough". When men already have enough of sex, they want more sex. When women already have enough of cars, they want more beautiful cars, just like clothes and shoes, the never-ending source of income for fashion shops.

These are voluntary choices instilled in ourselves, like Windows operating system installed in ourselves. Unless we don’t use the Windows operating system (like Pope Benedict  XVI, he uses Mac OS) we will be in search of those forever until we die. It’s either you search for these things until you meet your heaven’s gate or you search for God until you finally meet Him. That’s all I can say.

Oh and guys, don’t forget your condoms.